If you have stumbled across this page and thought to yourself one of the following things:
- OH MI GAAWDD I KNEW HER IN HIGH SCHOOL
- OH MI GAWDD WE GO TO COLLEGE TOGETHER
- OH MY GAWD WE ARE FRIENDS RIGHT NOW, I NEVER KNEW SHE HAD A TUMBLR!! KEEWLL MAN, JUS KEEWLLL!!
then please sit down while i explain something to you.
this is not here to serve the purpose of you finding out ALL OF THE SECRETS or feelings i simply didn’t tell you in real life. this is not the place for you to find out how i really feel about you. if there is something you are just aching to know, just fucking ask me the next time you see me. grow some moxy son and step up to the plate, because the minute you start surfing my tumblr digging for dirt so you can back me against the wall is when we’ll start to have some serious problems.
if i didn’t tell you something in real life, chances are its because
- i’m still trying to work out how i feel in a calm and rational way so when we talk about it, you actually understand what i am saying and don’t write me off as the angry black woman who just gets mad for no reason or is too “sensitive”
- maybe…..just maybe…i didn’t want you to know {Scarlett O’Hara GASP}. maybe you are not the person who i divulge my inner most workings to for a reason. and maybe you shouldn’t be focused on what i don’t tell you but why i don’t tell you.
i freely admit i am a very private person when it comes to a lot of things. but i don’t believe in wasting my tears, fears, anger, and time on people who will simply not get it or make it about themselves.
so basically, you’ve been warned. and if you pull that shit on me, i will let you have it in real life with none of the fucks given that day or any day.
now if you’re asking yourself “can i kick it?”…..well that’s up to you.
